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It’s the Good Advice That You Just Didn’t Take…
IN THIS PHOTO: Alanis Morissette in 1995/PHOTO CREDIT: Mick Hutson/Redferns (via SPIN)
Alanis Morissette’s Ironic at Thirty
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THE fourth single taken…
from Alanis Morissette’s third studio album, Jagged Little Pill, Ironic was released on 27th February, 1996. I want to mark thirty years of one of the defining songs of the '90s. I wrote about Ironic fairly recently, though that was around the debate about whether the ‘ironic’ scenarios in the song were actually ironic. Many people thought they were being clever by saying the situations were not irony. This has been disproven. I will include an article about that. However, that is pretty much all said about a song that is a standout from the masterpiece, Jagged Little Pill. A huge chart success that Morissette has played live numerous times, I want to explore this song more ahead of its thirtieth anniversary. Let’s get the is it/isn’t it actually ironic part out of the way first. In December, American Songwriter published an article reacting to an interview Alanis Morissette gave, where she discussed her views on the controversy and discussion around the accuracy and irony of Ironic’s lyrics:
“Alanis Morissette was about as big as any artist has ever been in the ’90s. Her cutting lyricism earned her many ears, thanks to the era’s affinity for punchy realism. She released one of her name-making songs in 1996, “Ironic.” Despite its massive success, there was some lyrical controversy surrounding it. According to Morissette, fans missed the real irony behind this thematically questionable track.
The Real Irony of Alanis Morissette’s “Ironic”
You might be saying to yourself, “What’s controversial about ‘ironic’?” For most listeners, absolutely nothing. But some listeners have pointed out that the lyrics, built around the idea of ironic circumstances, aren’t actually ironic—at least not in the strictest sense.
The chorus reads: It’s like rain on your wedding day / It’s a free ride when you’ve already paid / It’s the good advice that you just didn’t take / And who would’ve thought? It figures.
The list of “ironic” situations Morissette puts together in this song is more plainly unfortunate than truly ironic. Many naysayers have pointed out this fact, over the years, using this song as a punchline for Morissette’s lack of understanding.
According to the singer herself, there’s an even greater irony at play that fans have missed.
“Not Wildly Precious About It”
There are greater offenses in lyricism than Morissette missing the mark of irony. Countless artists have made up words or forced a meaning for the sake of rhyme. Lyricism isn’t always graded on grammatical correctness. This is a fact that Morissette knows and doesn’t think about too hard.
“People got really triggered by the malapropism, or whatever the word is,” Morissette said on MGM+’s Words + Music. “I am a linguist. I’m obsessed with linguistics. I also love making up words, and I also don’t care.”
“Where I go when people are triggered by anything is I quickly go to ‘what’s at the epicentre of this, what is everyone really up in arms about,’” she continued. “‘Why is everyone laughing?’ And I think we’re afraid to look stupid.”
She went on to say that she knows the irony in “Ironic” isn’t strong, but that she wasn’t being too precious about the writing process.
“I think a lot of lyrics around the planet, many, many artists, most of us aren’t being wildly precious about it,” she continued elsewhere. “So I’m 90% grammar police, which is the real irony. And then 10%, I really couldn’t care less. So I think the 10% won over on that song.”
In the end, “Ironic” has many shades of irony. And, all in all, it doesn’t matter if this song was ironclad in its use of language; it became a hit all the same”.
I might actually return to that debate about the lyrics and whether the word ‘ironic’ is used correctly, just because I found an interesting article. However, in 2024, GRAMMY published an article giving some background to Ironic and its legacy. A track I obviously first heard in 1995 when Jagged Little Pill came out, though it was more ubiquitous in 1996 when it was released as a single:
“Ironic” was written by Alanis Morissette and Glen Ballard, the driving force behind her breakout album “Jagged Little Pill.” Ballard, known for his work with Michael Jackson and Paula Abdul, pushed Morissette to tap into her raw emotions, resulting in the album’s signature angsty sound. Glen Ballard handled production duties alongside engineer Jeff Greenberg.
Misunderstood Irony: A Look at the Lyrics
The song’s central theme is frustration with life’s unfair twists. Morissette strings together situations like rain on your wedding day and a ten-dollar bill blowing away from a homeless man, all punctuated by the question “Isn’t it ironic?”
However, many listeners (and critics) pointed out that the situations aren’t truly ironic, lacking the expected contrast between expectation and reality. Morissette herself has acknowledged this, stating “I’d always embraced the fact that every once in a while I’d be the malapropism queen.”
Despite the technicality, the lyrics resonate with their portrayal of life’s unpleasant surprises and the frustration of feeling like the universe is working against you. Lines like “A traffic jam when you’re already late” capture the essence of everyday annoyances that feel like personal attacks.
Chart-Topping Success and Awards Recognition
“Ironic” became a global phenomenon, topping charts worldwide and propelling “Jagged Little Pill” to diamond-selling status. While the song itself didn’t win any major awards, the album won two GRAMMY Awards, including Album of the Year.
A Flood of Covers and Enduring Legacy
Many iconic songs have been covered, a way to pay tribute to the original musician. “Ironic” is no exception, it has been covered by countless artists, from Vienna Teng’s stripped-down acoustic version to Aaron Lewis of Staind, covering it at a live show. Other Alanis classics have been covered from artists including Weird Al Yankovic’s parody songs to more traditional rendition from First To Eleven. These covers highlight the song’s versatility and ability to connect with different audiences across genres.
While the debate over the true meaning of “ironic” continues, “Ironic” remains an iconic song. It captures the emotional turmoil of young adulthood and the frustration of feeling like the world doesn’t understand you. Its raw energy and relatable lyrics continue to resonate with listeners decades after its release”.
I think there will be new interest around Alanis Morissette’s Ironic, given that Jagged Little Pill turned thirty last year and Morissette spoke about the album and its importance. There are so many great singles from that album, including Hand in My Pocket, You Learn and You Oughta Know. I will end with some critical reaction to the song. However, this article is the next thing I want to illustrate:
“Alanis Morissette’s Jagged Little Pill is one of the bestselling albums of all time (33 million global sales and counting) and a staple filler of SOTB’s inaugural decade. On its 25th anniversary it remains one of those rare albums with a quintessentially distinctive sound, subsequently much imitated but never bettered. Morissette and producer/co-writer Glen Ballard wrote and recorded a song a day at Ballard’s home studio , and amazingly retained the original demo vocals for the final cut, all of which were captured in one or two takes. That live, raw and fresh lyrical brilliance snaps and fizzles out of the speakers from the opening, “Do I stress you out?” all the way through to the concluding “ if I cry all afternoon”.
Although I could have nominated many other (less reviled) JLP singles that appear later in the canon (Mary Jane, Head Over Feet and Hand in My Pocket all being outstanding contenders), Ironic takes the crown for notoriety. It’s also just a damn great track. The twinkly folksy acoustic opening exploding into a monster chorus, anthemic with its grungy power chords and layered soaring vocals replete with lilting harmonies, driven on a bed of 90’s distorted drum loop. The Grammy nominated video is pretty strong too, even if it did suffer the plague of yet another “Weird” Al Yankovic interpolation in 2003. This is a song that perfectly lends itself to driving down a snowy highway in a 1978 Lincoln Continental Mark V, caterwauling the chorus whilst pounding the steering wheel and/or narrowly being decapitated by a passing bridge.
As to the lyrical content, more than enough sincere, po-faced and condescending white male superior hot-takes have already crashed like waves upon this monolith of a pop song, full of sound and fury and signifying nothing. For what it’s worth, I’m with professor Simon DeDeo, whose forensic apologetic posits an 85% hit rate for irony, be that situational, Hegelian or other. He concludes that, “[s]ince its inception, people have used it as an example of how the subtleties of irony escape the grasp of popular culture, and cited the lyrics to demonstrate their superior grasp of the concept. They hear, but do not hear.”
I do hear, and I hear the exuberant soundtrack of the Spring of 1996, vivid in all its jangling untamed brilliance”.
The American Reader explores the unbearable ironies of Alanis Morissette for their feature. There are few songs in history that have been as poured over and debated because of the lyrics or the accuracy of them. Most people would just admire a song and leave it there. However, Ironic is pulled apart and dissected:
“First, let’s get this out of the way: calling Alanis Morissette’s lyrics unironic is wrong. From “irony” in the Oxford English Dictionary:
3. A state of affairs or an event that seems deliberately contrary to what was or might be expected; an outcome cruelly, humorously, or strangely at odds with assumptions or expectations.
This accurately and uncontroversially describes almost all of the song’s situations. For everyone I know, rain on one’s wedding day would indeed be cruelly, humorously, and strangely at odds with expectations. This sort of irony is usually called “situational irony,” and while I’m usually opposed to breaking irony apart into discrete kinds, the phrase works pretty well here to describe the many ironic examples that Alanis describes. Both that 98-year-old-man and Mr. Play-it-Safe possess fates that are truly ironic; they struggle to create a meaningful narrative in the face of a world that thwarts their intentions. The only moment in the song that doesn’t easily fit into this definition of irony is one of the last, with the “man of my dreams” and “his beautiful wife.” There is certainly a contrast there, but it doesn’t seem to be one of expectations; I’ll get to that later. In general, though, the song evokes the disparity of meaning that comes from the difference of expectation and actuality. Just because no one is being sarcastic doesn’t mean the song isn’t ironic.
But let’s not stop there. The more I think about it, the more I am convinced that in writing this Alanis has a much deeper, more radical, and philosophical concept of irony. It seems to me that Ms. Morissette is remarkably well versed in the theories of irony from Erasmus to Paul de Man; if she hasn’t read their works herself, then she has certainly internalized much of the theory of irony not only as a trope but as a question of philosophy.
Take, for example: “It’s the good advice that you just didn’t take.” This is the vaguest line in the song, and it seems to pose a challenge to the ironist. Presumably the situational irony here is that the listener didn’t expect the advice to apply, whereas it did indeed. But why didn’t “you” take the advice? It’s possible that you thought the advice-giver was being ironic, and didn’t intend for you to heed the advice. Or you simply thought that the advice wasn’t “good” when it was; either way you don’t take it “seriously.” In fact that word, “seriously,” haunts the end of the lyric; the irony here is one of (mis)interpretation. Paul de Man addresses this difficulty of interpretation in his essay “The Concept of Irony” (not to be confused with Kierkegaard’s book of the same name): “what is at stake in irony is the possibility of understanding, the possibility of reading, the readability of texts, the possibility of deciding on A meaning or on a multiple set of meanings or on a controlled polysemy of meanings.” Doesn’t Alanis provide the perfect example of living in a world where we’re unsure of what to take seriously, and what not to? And who, really, would have thought it figures?
A more global question: what is “Ironic” really about, anyway? I turn to the bridge/outro: “Life has a funny way of sneaking up on you / Life has a funny, funny way of helping you out” What is she talking about here? How is life helping her out? It seems to me that this song, like so many songs on Jagged Little Pill, is describing the wistful emotional reflection that a Gen-Xer feels when distanced from her own life experience. Think Daria, think Reality Bites. It’s telling that the music video features three Alanises taking a road trip: Alanis sees herself from the outside. A friend once described this popular 1990s attitude as “the meaningfulness of meaninglessness.“ Come to think of it, that describes the poetry of T.S. Eliot pretty well too.
Or, put another way, Alanis is describing the affect of Kierkegaardian irony. From the philosopher’s book The Concept of Irony:
In irony, the subject is negatively free, since the actuality that is supposed to give the subject content is not there. He is free from the constraint in which the given actuality holds the subject, but he is negatively free and as such is suspended, because there is nothing that holds him. But this very freedom, this suspension, gives the ironist a certain enthusiasm, because he becomes intoxicated, so to speak, in the infinity of possibilities…
Does this quote not perfectly describe the emotional content of “Ironic”? The situations in the song simultaneously create a feeling of freedom and one of alienation; we are free to laugh at the irony of the world, but we are unable to experience its meaning unironically. I most strongly identify with this emotion (and song) when I’m hung over.
To conclude I want to return to the troubling final example in the song, the man of Alanis’s dreams and his beautiful wife. There is a yearning here, as well as its negation or deferral, but how is it ironic? Well, in his 1828 book The Philosophy of Life and of Language, Friedrich Schlegel connects irony and love:
True irony—for there also is a false one—is the irony of love. It arises out of the feeling of finiteness and one’s own limitation, and out of the apparent contradiction between this feeling and the idea of infinity which is involved in all true love.
I don’t even want to think about false irony, and to be honest I’m not 100% sure what this quote (or book) really means, but I can tell that Alanis knows. Elsewhere Schlegel describes irony as the effect of a ‘finite being striving to comprehend an infinite reality.’ This is the feeling that “Ironic” both describes and evokes when I try to interpret it”.
I want to bring in Wikipedia and their article about Ironic. The critical reaction to a song that I think has grown in stature since 1996. It has received more praise and love than some provided it thirty years ago. It is often seen as one of Alanis Morissette’s greatest songs. It is an anthem and one that so many people can sing along to:
“Jaime Gill from Dot Music commented on the original version of "Ironic", on his review of Jagged Little Pill Acoustic (2005), that "[Jagged Little Pill] gave us pop's greatest parlour game, with spot the genuine irony in 'Ironic'" and calling the song "pretty" and "catchy". Additionally, he noted that the acoustic version “actually sounds more relaxed and engaging without the hoary loud guitars of the original". Even though Stephen Thomas Erlewine of AllMusic marked the track as one of the "All Media Guide track pick" of the album, in a separate review, from the same website, the CD single release was rated with two-and-a-half out of five stars. Pareles noted that in verses of "Ironic", and another song from the album ("Mary Jane"), "it's easy to envision Morissette on the stage of a club, singing wry couplets backed by acoustic guitar". He also commented in another article he wrote, that the song was actually "unironic". Victoria Segal from Melody Maker praised it as "a perfectly nice piece of bubbling folk rock." A reviewer from Music Week rated it four out of five, noting that it "builds into another powerful anthem with beautiful echoes of The Cocteau Twins. It could see her break into the Top 20 for the first time." Dave Brecheisen of PopMatters felt that the acoustic version of "Ironic", was much worse than the original version. The single won the Juno Award for Single of the Year at the 1997 ceremony, and in the same year it was nominated for a Grammy Award, in the category of Record of the Year”.
On 27th February, it will be thirty years since Ironic was released as a single. It shows how strong Jagged Little Pill is that a song as towering as Ironic was the fourth single. Whilst the decades-lasting linguistic debate – why hopefully has been put to bed now – has somewhat stolen focus and been a disservice to a genuinely phenomenal song, the fact it received so much airplay shows that there is a lot of affection for this track. Everyone has their favourite lyrics from Ironic. Mine are these: “Well, life has a funny way of sneaking up on you/When you think everything's okay and everything's going right/And life has a funny way of helping you out/When you think everything's gone wrong/And everything blows up in your face”. I am looking forward to the thirtieth anniversary of Ironic and I hope that people show this song the respect…
IT thoroughly deserves.
